Thursday, May 10, 2007

Mother..

I promised them Burger King for dinner... and Burger king it was.

We were heading towards the nearest Burger King in our area... just as we were crossing the road in front of our apartment, i saw an older lady. Her face was clearly in pain. She was carrying at least 6 plastic bags containing fruits n veggies from pazar. They were clearly heavy. She had put them on the ground..her hand holding her back...she was grimacing in pain...

I voluntered to carry her things till her apartment door. She didnt know me but she consented. I was after all with two kids tagging along. I couldnt have been a thief could i? Hatice also took one of the plastic bags to carry.As we were walking, the lady was saying how grateful she was... praying for good things for me n my kids..as i kept saying..*estaghfirullah* repeatedly... her home was not far..only 100 metres from where we met..she was in fact our street neighbours...but such a simpleact of kindness, i think left her totally grateful... i was happy most when hatice particularly became so happy after helping the lady...hopefully one lesson learnt...to go good...

We continued walking towards our destination. ..Of course the anne just culdnt stop making a detour..into pazar hehehehe.. it was late... the pazar sellers would be ready to leave the pazar anyway... i dragged my kids to venture into the pazar street...the obediently complied...

What i saw saddened me. At the street where the sellers had left the pieces of fruits n veggies which were rotten or perhaps soggy to sell, a very very old lady was picking them up. I was stunned. I kept thinking, there i was trying to buy the best for my family..esp for my kids... and there was this lady...picking up the bits and pieces no one else wanted on the road...

Those two ladies.... who knows what their history r. I didnt ask...they most probably r somebody's mothers... just imagine.. if they r ur mothers... wouldnt u help?

U n i.. we came out of our mothers' wombs... a mother is someone who normally carried us for 9 months inside her tummy. ...My mother is thousands of kilometres away from me...yet she is alive... i can call her anytime... i can still hear her voice...but for my halil... it would be totally scary if his mom calls him from the other world....

Mother's day will be celebrated this Sunday.If u have a mother nearby.. celebrate it with her..dont wait till it is too late to celebrate that special person...

Here is a song written and sung by Halil... one of his songs written soon after his mother's death... in ode of Anne... after all these years... ur son still misses u very deeply...



HAPPY MOTHER'S DAY EVERYONE!

Thank You for hopping by...Hope to see u again the next time..

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Blogger Kak Elle said...

I agree with you simah...I miss my arwah mom too eventhough she was gone for so long I still cry for her and listening to Halil's song my tears just flow down.

Jasa and pengkorbanan mother amat di harga-i....happy mothers day too to all readers.

May 11, 2007 at 12:58:00 AM GMT+3  
Blogger anggerik merah said...

Simah dear,

happy mother's day to you too..

Love, AM

May 11, 2007 at 1:20:00 AM GMT+3  
Blogger Mummy Rizq said...

simah.. hang buat aku gelak pepagi... ada ke hang tanya what if halil's mom call him from the other world?

May 11, 2007 at 3:13:00 AM GMT+3  
Blogger Unknown said...

Hi Simah,

What can I say? Awwwww....what a sweet gesture that was. It is these simple acts of kindness that would leave lasting good impressions. It is these simple acts of kindness that lacking these days in this world of materialism. I am happy you made that extra distance to touch someone that way. I would like to have more neighbours like you.

Happy mother's day to you and to all beautiful moms.

May 11, 2007 at 3:41:00 AM GMT+3  
Blogger Kaklong Syikin said...

salam,

alahai..sedihnya lagu ni, sebak saya.wlwpun tak paham sepatah habuk, tp nadanya tu meruntun hati.

hehe..samalah ngan Mummy Rizq, sempat lagi buat lawak pasal mak Halil panggil drp alam lain

bagus awak tolong makcik tu, mendidik anak2 awak membantu org lain.

Itulah simah, moga apa yg awak lihat di pasar tu menjadi teladan pada diri n kami semua yg membaca entri ni, paling utama utk peringatan anak2 kita juga. kita kena didik mrk sejak kecil agar tahu menghargai kita.

May 11, 2007 at 4:54:00 AM GMT+3  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

So true. The last few weeks have really opened my eyes.
Look forward to my family's Mother's Day lunch this Sunday:)

May 11, 2007 at 5:22:00 AM GMT+3  
Blogger maklang said...

Baguslah simah tunjuk pada anak2 benda2 camtu...InsyaAllah mereka akan ingat sampai bila2.
Memang kalau kita tengok2 makcik2 atau pakcik2 tua masih lagi nak bekerja, terpikir jugak sejenakkan...Alangkah bersyukurnya kita dengan apa yang kita ada...

Selamat Hari Ibu...so, sunday ni makan kat mana or dapat hadiah apa???Patutnya ibu2 kena rehat kalau hari ibu nikan...

May 11, 2007 at 7:08:00 AM GMT+3  
Blogger jewelhenna said...

salam simah, firstly, that song is beautiful (what is he singing about?), meremang bulu roma saya mendengar suara your hubby mendayu2 camtu. secondly, your hubby has a beautiful voice. my favourite turkish singer is kirac (no, not tarkan haha!) and i think turkish singers (men) have such beautiful voices. thanks for sharing that with us.

alhamdulillah, what a good lesson that was for your kids. my mom is still alive but my arwah abah passed on almost 7 years ago. i still miss him, and yes, i agree with you, for those who still have their parents with them, do spend time with them, respect, love and cherish them, before they (or you) are gone forever.

take care, simah.

(sorry about the email, sayalah pemalas terunggul didunia, hehe!).

May 11, 2007 at 7:11:00 AM GMT+3  
Blogger dith said...

Simah, touching story. Halil sings well I must say.

Insyallah will call mom this Sunday as reminded by you!

May 11, 2007 at 8:56:00 AM GMT+3  
Blogger Eddie Putera said...

eh..lagu apa ni ? Macam lagu jepun..Jin suker jin suker

May 11, 2007 at 10:31:00 AM GMT+3  
Blogger aNIe said...

Simah...Selamat Hari Ibu buat Simah...kasih ibu tak pernah dpt ditukar ganti...

Biarpun ibu kak lady telah lama pergi...kenangan bersama tidak pernah lupur...rindu padanya tetap membara.....

May 11, 2007 at 11:10:00 AM GMT+3  
Blogger Mulan said...

sedih la... mak kita pon jauh nun di msia.. bila la nak balik ni?? sayu dengar suara halil tu...

May 11, 2007 at 11:17:00 AM GMT+3  
Blogger Mama Sarah said...

he wrote the song himself simah? wow. kasih seorang anak kpd ibunya yg telah tiada. mana kan sama dgn jasa ibunya semasa hayatnya masih ada. aduh simah...

May 11, 2007 at 11:27:00 AM GMT+3  
Blogger Queen Of The House said...

Happy mother's day, Simah.

Sometimes I have this urge to dial my mum's number. Then reality kicks in. The phone may ring but she won't be there to pick it up. I will have to get used to that :-(

May 11, 2007 at 12:19:00 PM GMT+3  
Blogger Faizah said...

Selamat Hari Ibu..sedap sora Halil..

Kasih ibu kasih sejati..tiada dapat ditukar ganti..saya pun begitu merindui ibu saya..

May 11, 2007 at 1:05:00 PM GMT+3  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Juz talked to a friend here abt her mother's celebration. I'm not sure abt mine coz our family never pay much attention on so-called special days including b/days (except for small kids). But I imagine mak watching the news interspersed with mother's day adverts/celebrations - she must wonder why her children wouldnt bother at all...sad, don't you think? I guess I'll make a special effort to call her this sunday so that she knows..insyaAllah.
I'm glad to read that your previous bad experience doesn't tainted your interaction with other Turks. Who said helping strangers do not paid us anything? The feels-good rewards can uplift you for days! Kesian kat makcik yg kutip buah/sayur tu...
Perhaps we should teach children about caring for our parents/elderly people. Maklumlah, budak2 tau apa dia nak, dia dpt - we forget to teach them, life is abt giving back nt just receiving!
I went to supermarket today & passed by the agar2 shelves - teringat kat you..things tt I usually taken for granted.
Thx for the update on Hazia's Ad. I understand she's closing tt chapter of her life bt how I wish things are much better for them...doa sama2 ye.

May 11, 2007 at 1:37:00 PM GMT+3  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I would do the same for the old woman. Yeah, one day we too will grow old. Your hubby has a lovely voice. Happy Mother's Day to you!

May 11, 2007 at 3:11:00 PM GMT+3  
Blogger  Lee said...

Hello Simah, Happy mother's day to you. A mother's love for her child is like nothing else in the world.
It knows no law, no pity, it dares all things and crushes down
remorselessly all that stands in its path.

The most important thing a father can do for his children is to love their mother.
Have a great day, Simah. UL.

May 11, 2007 at 7:49:00 PM GMT+3  
Blogger NorAiniJ said...

Very nice of you and the kids to help out the old lady.

Happy Mother's Day to you dear Simah!

May 12, 2007 at 6:57:00 AM GMT+3  
Blogger Ku Keng said...

Happy Mother's Day Simah.

May 12, 2007 at 4:32:00 PM GMT+3  
Blogger Lollies said...

i think your action would leave an impact on hatice. this is the best way for her to learn. kudos simah

May 13, 2007 at 4:31:00 PM GMT+3  
Blogger Theta said...

Dear Simah,
Thanks for this timely reminder on Mother's Day. Have a great Mother's Day. Celebrate it the way you want it - vegging out at home, a stroll in the park, fine-dining at a favourite restaurant and so forth - anything that suits your fancy.

Take great care!

May 13, 2007 at 4:40:00 PM GMT+3  
Blogger Ajzie said...

Dear Simah

Happy Mutter Tag to you..

May 13, 2007 at 5:59:00 PM GMT+3  
Blogger Mama Rock said...

simah, happy mother's day to you...hatice and baddin are blessed to have you as their special mom!

May 14, 2007 at 5:24:00 AM GMT+3  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

kalau mak halil call tu kira kes haru biru la... hmmm aku pun kalau tolong warga tua harap satu je, in case mak bapa aku dalam keadaan tu ada la hamba Allah lain tolong depa gak :)

May 14, 2007 at 10:19:00 AM GMT+3  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

assalamualaikum,

akak nak tanyalah boleh?.. klu bln jun musim ape?.. ada fruit picking tak?.. blh tak blng tempt2 mana yg bagus.. makanan apa yg sedap.. insyallah kami skluga akan gi turki.. sori bnyk soalan.. TQ.

May 14, 2007 at 6:51:00 PM GMT+3  
Blogger simah said...

kak elle
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memang akak..jasa seorang ibu memang tak boleh dilupai...selamat menyambut hari ibu to u too :0)..

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Anggerik Merah
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thanks n to u too :0)

*hugs*

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mummy rizq
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kalau mak dia call from the other world..aku pecut dulu hehehe
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ruby ahmad
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happy mother's day to u too :0)

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syikin
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hehehe awak ni tak habis habis nak menangis..tapi ditambah dengan hormon sekarang lagi la awak cepatmelelh yek?

tu la... saya ni banyak kurangnya dlm mendidik anak.. tapi tu la.. kalau boleh biarlah depa membesar jadi jenis yg suka tolong orang lain.. kita sebagai ibu kena doakan jerla kan..

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hazia
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hope u have had a wonderful time with ur family... pasal that thing... *hugs*
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mak lang
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memang...kita patutu syukur dengan apa yg ada kan?

saya mother's day nak rehat? heheh lagi teruk saya kerja kemas dapır tu... masak bihun hehehehehehe.. halil tak lalu telan tapi sedap tau utk standard bihun ..dan memandangkan saya tak pandai masak bihun :0)

mak lang relax ker?

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May 14, 2007 at 9:56:00 PM GMT+3  
Blogger simah said...

jewelhenna
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u dont like tarkan???_?? hahahaha...cool.. i selalunya tak paham apa dia nyanyi.. suara patutnya romantik la konon :0) kıraç..ok la..i like esp lagu *beni kimse tutamaz*..

ohh..lagu tu pasal halil's feelings after his mother's death..how everybody keep saying.. *everything will be fine*...*how this is life*... but they dont know how he was feeling..coz the mother is like no other... my sis in law mehveş banjir dengar lagu ni hehehehehe

by the way..tak nak share ur blog addy ker?

hope u have enjoyed ur mother's day..

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dith
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happy mother.2s day akak...

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djinsakti
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ni lagu bahasa turki..buah hati saya yg nanyi :0)
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kak lady
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mak kak lady memang mak yg bertuah..masyaAllah...
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mulan
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la kan u baru balik ari tu? tapi memang kan? rinduuuuuuuuu...

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mama sarah
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yeah.. he wrote the song himself... he wrote many songs actually..this is just one of them...

memang rindu kan kat mak kita kat malaysia? huwaaaaaaaaaa
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May 14, 2007 at 10:07:00 PM GMT+3  
Blogger Kiah Kardashian said...

Happy Mother's Day. Sorry lama tak mai sini. Kat sini mother's day dah celebrate lama dah.

Lagu untuk hang ada Halil tulis tak?? hihihi. AFUNDI Halil!

May 14, 2007 at 10:12:00 PM GMT+3  
Blogger simah said...

Queen of the House
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oh akak..*hugs*... saya pulak nak nangis baca kata kata akak ni...*hugs*

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faizabelle
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rinduuuuuu tapi dah jauh kena pendam ajer la dalam hati yek?

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rad
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my mom pun mcm urs jugak.. tapi betul la.. bila depa dok tengok advertisememnt pasalsambutan hari ibu..walau mulut cakap tak sambut..memang kalau ada anak call n cakap selamat hari ibu...melebar senyum dia kan?

true..memang kena ajar budak zaman akan datang supaya jadi caring...

hehehe so enjoy what u have there..even though it is a simple agar agar which nobody would ever bother to look at twice in malaysia..

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alice
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thanks..n happy mother.2s day to u too... i still have problem sending my chapter 2 to u la... will try again..

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uncle lee
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dear uncle.. how true... coming from a father himself...

happy mother's day to u...

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nj
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kalau tak tolong...it iwll stay at my conscience...so baik tolong kan?

hope ur mother.2s day celebration was good..

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ku keng
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teşekkur ederiz keng bey... :0)

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lollies
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thanks..i do try my best though i am afraid my best is not enough :0( ..sooo many things to learn myself

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theta
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thanks..hopefully u have had a nice mother's day too..mine was spent working in the kitchen..work work work n zzzzzzzzzzzzzz... hahahaha

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ajzie
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thanks n to u too :0)
Anneler gunu kutlu olsun :0)

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mama rock
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i think they r both would be relieved if they can exchange their anne to a new anne.. but they cant..so they just have to say i love u anne all the time! hahahah

happy mother's day to u too :0)

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May 14, 2007 at 10:18:00 PM GMT+3  
Blogger simah said...

alinlai
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betul tu..hang lagi la kan mak hang kat sebelah darat sana...

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anonymous
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waalaikumussalam...

kalau adik nak datang istanbul, tempat yg first sekali adik nak kena datang tu...ialah..

1.kapalı çarşı (big pazaar)kat beyazit .. kat situ memang kalau nak beli souvenir for tourists memang that is the spot tapi kena tawar sebab diaorangkalau tourists, depa akan cuba potong kepala..n u have to remember masuk pintu mana..nama pintu tu (ada tulis kat entry)

katkawasan beyazit tu ada satu street tu (tapi selalunya tourist tak akan jumpa kot).. yg ada jual tudung turki...orang panggil tudung kepala..dalam bahasa turki... *baş örtusu*...

kat kawasan beyazit tu ada juga pintu masuk istanbul university yg famous tu... n if u love architecture.. cuba pi kat suleymaniye camii (mosque) kat area beyazit tu... depan tu ada sederet kedai makan yg jual *kuru fasulye* (beans)... orang turki memang suka makan tu...

dari beyazit. adik boleh naik tamway atau jalan ikut jalan tramway ke sultam ahmet area where u have the blue mosque....kat situ jangan lupa makan *sultan ahmet köfte*..kat situ jugak ada *aya sofya*.. dulu dia church tapi lepas tu kena convert jadi masjid... around that area tu ada *topkapı palace* tapi kalau nak masuk situ make sure u can walk for hours n hours... n jangan lupa masuk ke area *harem* kat palace tu...

tempat yg lain lain?
u can go to taksim...u can go to dolmabahçe palace...

these r the basic places touyrists will go...

kalau ada apa apa soalan..contact me at
refcobass@rocketmail.com

if needs be..nanti akak kasi my phone number (thru email)... kalau tersesat ka kat turki... akak sedaya mungkin (i tak reti pun jalan kat turki ni heheh)... i will try to help..

bila nak mai turki ni?


menag akak nak tanyalah boleh?.. klu bln jun musim ape?.. ada fruit picking tak?.. blh tak blng tempt2 mana yg bagus.. makanan apa yg sedap.. insyallah kami skluga akan gi turki.. sori bnyk soalan.. TQ.

May 14, 2007 at 10:29:00 PM GMT+3  
Blogger simah said...

zakiah
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ala hang kan ada anak kecik..takkan la hang nak dapat mai selalu... tak mai tak pa..jangan lupakkan aku udah :0)

eh lagu utk aku mesti la ada... tapi masa zaman bercinta dulu la hheheh

dah kawin buat apa dia nak tulis lagu utk aku kot..kot kot la lepas aku mati nanti dia tulih ka... :0)

May 15, 2007 at 12:08:00 AM GMT+3  
Blogger IBU said...

Simah dear,

what a brilliant experience for the kids. action speaks louder than words kan? well done.

tak dapat nak dengar lagu. sound system kong la pulak. anyway, judging from the comments, i'm sure it was beautiful.

HAPPY MOM's DAY !

May 16, 2007 at 10:13:00 PM GMT+3  

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