Looking back..

It was at this table(in the picture). It was spring. The location? Sapanca.

Ur Anne (mother), halil n i were having dinner. Selim was married. Halim was married. Ur anne and i were talking about finding a wife for Kerim. Suddenly, Halil said to us... * I wanna get married*. He explained his internet love etc..etc... as ur anne and i listened to him. We were shocked.


After he had finished talking, i told him...



"My son, u have just finished ur master. u r tired. ur mind is overworked. u r a grown up man. u r intelligent. Rest and think about this for a few months and later tell me whether u have changed ur mind or not. "


A few months later, he again popped up the same topic and said,

"baba, i am still with the same decision"

Well... u know the rest... Halil and i got married and we have 2 wonderful children together... Alhamdulillah we r happy...though we drive each other crazy..

These were what baba told us at that exact table yesterday (saturday night)when we were at the sapanca house.... about how halil approached him and anne about our cyberlove.

When he was telling the story to kerim, meşe, merve,safa, halil n i,..... my ears were listening to him ...but my eyes were on him... as he was retelling this... he was smiling... ...that put me at peace... coz from what i can see from his expressions....... i think he bears no regrets in approving halil's choice of a wife..so all these 8 years... as a daughter in law... i havent been that bad after all :0)....

Thank You for hopping by...Hope to see u again the next time..