A hug n a kiss
I heard a commotion in hatice's room... A crying voice could be heard...I know that voice...
It was Ediz crying... Ediz n baddin had obviously got involved in a fight.. n one way or another... baddin had pushed Ediz
Ekrem was saying..*simah yenge.. baddin edize itti* (auntie simah..baddin pushed ediz)...
Looking at baddin's face, i knew it was true...
*baddin..çabuk ediz dan uzur dile* (baddin..apologize to ediz quick)...
Baddin knew i meant business...came quietly to Ediz...apologized ... n both hugged each other...
I kissed the part where ediz said had hurt... pulled him into my arms in a big hug....kissed him on his cheeks while softly touched his face in an action of love.....
what a funny thing a hug n a kiss... he stopped crying n went into the room again... a minute later.... 3 childish voices could be heard gigling n laughing inside the room..no hard feelings... all fight forgotten...
Children r so simple arent they? they dont keep hard feelings... they forgive n forget as easily as the wind blows... at times,i just wonder... why cant we adults do that? R we so big that we forgot the simplest things of all? That to err is human n to forgive is divine? do we have to involve ego n pride in everything?? i dunno... only at times.. the pain n hurt caused by the other person had gone too deep that to forgive may be possible over time...but to forget... it is not as simple as that....
When i was a child, i so wanted to grow faster so that i could experience the things my elder sister was experiencing... now that i am older... i am wishing for the innocence n simplicity of my childhood...
u cant have both ways, huh?... and so... let us just live n enjoy the things we have in front of us... no matter how easy or hard it is... i think..a hug.. n a kiss... is essential no matter how old u get... the need for love care not the age u r in...
Thank You for hopping by...Hope to see u again the next time..
It was Ediz crying... Ediz n baddin had obviously got involved in a fight.. n one way or another... baddin had pushed Ediz
Ekrem was saying..*simah yenge.. baddin edize itti* (auntie simah..baddin pushed ediz)...
Looking at baddin's face, i knew it was true...
*baddin..çabuk ediz dan uzur dile* (baddin..apologize to ediz quick)...
Baddin knew i meant business...came quietly to Ediz...apologized ... n both hugged each other...
I kissed the part where ediz said had hurt... pulled him into my arms in a big hug....kissed him on his cheeks while softly touched his face in an action of love.....
what a funny thing a hug n a kiss... he stopped crying n went into the room again... a minute later.... 3 childish voices could be heard gigling n laughing inside the room..no hard feelings... all fight forgotten...
Children r so simple arent they? they dont keep hard feelings... they forgive n forget as easily as the wind blows... at times,i just wonder... why cant we adults do that? R we so big that we forgot the simplest things of all? That to err is human n to forgive is divine? do we have to involve ego n pride in everything?? i dunno... only at times.. the pain n hurt caused by the other person had gone too deep that to forgive may be possible over time...but to forget... it is not as simple as that....
When i was a child, i so wanted to grow faster so that i could experience the things my elder sister was experiencing... now that i am older... i am wishing for the innocence n simplicity of my childhood...
u cant have both ways, huh?... and so... let us just live n enjoy the things we have in front of us... no matter how easy or hard it is... i think..a hug.. n a kiss... is essential no matter how old u get... the need for love care not the age u r in...
Thank You for hopping by...Hope to see u again the next time..
Labels: The heart speaks
posted by simah at
1:05 PM
15 Comments:
children can be good examples to us adults, kan?
as we grow older, we become more emotionally complex (althought it shouldnt be the case as our raging hormones should now gone by then).
As parents, we hug and kiss our children, to take away their pain (and sometimes ours).
But between adults, we always think the effect our action to our ego.
And we just lose precious time by doing so...
Oh..such simple topic..such deep meanings. And yes...appreciate what you have now before it's gone
Hugs and kisses..simple action but powerful effects..
children are so innocent kan?with a hug and a kiss dah cukup ni yg tua bangka yg susah....hehe.The Zaim family occupy the whole block ke?
well, adults pun nak hug jugak...tapi will still prolong the merajuk a bit longer :)
Macamana ek kalau adults tengah mengamuk bergaduh, kita hug and kiss dia...apa akan berlaku...I rasa kena terajang lagi ada .... takut nak cuba, baik diam buat taktau je....entahlah susah jadi adults .
I tak tahan baca comment loveujordan. LOL! Which adults? Strangers ke? Ooh..sudah melampau..ha ha.
Anyway, back to you Simah, touching nya entry ni. I do the same with my kids. Peluk cium selalu. They have grownh to be quite balanced. Nak cakap angelic tak lah. Ok lah..nampak my hand gesture tak..okaaaay laaaah..ha ha. They are wonderful boys, alhamdulillah.
I think akal budak kecil better than most adults (berkarat dah) kan?
I think hugs & kisses work well with our loved ones esp in time of needs...not just for the kids. It's emotionally uplifting! But first, we've to make it a common occurence in the family otherwise mulalah kuar kata2, "Hang ok ka?" or "Kau gilo ko apo?" LOL.
BTW, stil can comment on previous entry? Evaluation of you: I think you're simply who you're - like what you portray here. It never cross my mind that you'd be somebody else in character - so difficult la to imagine. See, the way you share ur previous years - wedding photos & all. I wish I had your courage to share all & bare all (not literally eh)!rad
because most kids err without intention. unfortunately its not the same with adult. for mistakes that adults make without intention, you can forgive, the one with the evil intent yang susah.
tapi all these are part of a test for us human. kekadang kita sendiri cakap ada orang marah. kadang2 kita marah kat orang. let's strive to be better.
Simah...jgnkan anak2...kita ni kalau kene hug & kiss ngan hubby tu pun...boleh cair hati ni...
i am taht type of person yg easily forgive people... but to forget... ermmmm.. i'll think about it later!
budak2 memang senang bab gaduh dan berbaik balik, kita org tua ni la kadang2 ambik masa bertahun nak baik balik...hmmmm adatlah tu kan :)
mama sarah
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betul tu...memang ada baiknya jugak kita belajar from kids :0)
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ös istanbul
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yeah...we think too much.. children just act..they rarely think :0)
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k.d
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true... :0)
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kak elle
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tak lah akak...there r 2 zaim blocks..dalam satu block tu ada halil n his big bro n his 2 aunties (dad's side)..
satu blok lagi adahalilpunya 2 bg brothers n 2 cousins...
kakak halil n his aunties (sebelah mak) n his baba (dad) duduk satu blok around 15 minutes walk from our place....semua dudukdekat la kira ni...kalau sekali berkumpul..memang apt kitaorang susah nak muat sebab kecik......tu yg selalunya w all kumpul kat rumah baba.. loads n loads of free space there :0)
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mama rock
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ehem mama.. u selalu buat ker? hehehe
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loveujordan
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heheheheheheeh tu interesting thought jugak ..memang not everyone will automatically respond to hugs n kisses kan...
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ruby ahmad
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hahaha kelakarla u ni..
u ada berapa boys? dah besar ker diaorang?
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rad
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i think u r right...mcm i la kan..i hug n kiss my kids like a zillion times a day..tapi kalau i balik malaysia n cuba buat mcm tu kat my dad ker...or my mom ker... mesti dia orang cakap..* hang betoi ka tak ni? hang dah sewel ka??*..
memang all depends on the environment...
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lollies
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betul cakap u tu..letzstrive to be bettr...
and...
*All the evil onessssssssss...stay away from usssssss*
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kak lady
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bila ada rasa sayang tu..memang possibilities of nak cair memang senang....esp bila duduk jauh jauh...*hugs*
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mummy rizq
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hehehehehe hang ni mcm ada pengalaman ja :0)
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alinlai
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kecik kecik adat lain..dah besaq tua bangka adat lain... kita manusia ni memangcomel sebab suka memeningkan kepala otak dengan perangai kita sendiri :0)
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