Tuesday, October 30, 2007

Turkey n War


First of all..Al fatihah to D's hubby(www.pausetoreflect.blogspot.com) in Conventry who died today... To dear D n family.. i hope u will be able to find the strength to move on...i may not know u... but my heart goes for u n ur kids...
Turkey has been making headlines in the world news the last few weeks.... today, i found this article on *Today's Zaman*..the only English newspaper in Turkey... try n read this out...

Why Turkey’s army will stay home by IAN BREMMER*

Just when the smoke from Turkey's domestic political conflicts of the past year had begun to clear, another deadly attack by Kurdish separatists on Turkish soldiers has the government threatening military attacks inside northern Iraq.

That prospect raises risks for Turkey, Iraq and the United States. But there are reasons to doubt that the situation is as dangerous as recent headlines suggest. Turkey accuses Iraqi Kurds of harboring between 3,000 and 3,500 of Turkey's most active Kurdish militants -- the Kurdistan Workers' Party (PKK) separatist militants who are blamed for the deaths of 80 Turkish soldiers so far this year. The trouble reached the boiling point on Oct. 7, when the PKK killed 13 Turkish soldiers near Turkey's border with Iraq.

The Turkish public has demanded action and Prime Minister Recep Tayyip Erdoğan's government has responded. On Oct. 17, despite pleas for patience and restraint from Iraq and the US, Turkish lawmakers voted 507-19 to authorize Erdoğan to order cross-border military strikes into Iraq at any time over the next year. Erdoğan has sent Iraqi Kurds a forceful message. But for several reasons, the Turkish military is likely to limit its operations to small-scale incursions and air strikes on specific targets rather than launch an all-out war.

First, the Turkish military has no interest in embracing the risks that come with involvement in Iraq's sectarian strife. A full-scale invasion might well provoke Iraq's own Kurdish guerrillas into a prolonged and bloody battle with Turkish forces that can only undermine support for Erdoğan's government at home and abroad.

Second, Turkey's government hopes to keep the country's bid to join the European Union moving forward. An invasion of Iraq would bring that process to a grinding halt. EU Foreign Policy Chief Javier Solana has made plain that Europe strongly opposes any large-scale Turkish military operation in Iraq.

Third, Turkey is well aware that an all-out attack inside Iraq is exactly what Turkey's Kurdish separatists want. What better way to damage Turkey than to pull its military into conflict with Iraq, the US and the EU? Erdoğan has no intention of being drawn into that trap. With all that in mind, this latest move by Turkey's Parliament should be seen more as an ultimatum to Iraq's Kurdish Regional Government to expel the Turkish Kurds and an attempt to persuade the US to use its considerable influence there. That's hardball politics, not a declaration of war.

The parliamentary authorization itself is carefully worded to underline Turkey's limited aims. It stresses that Turkey's military has no intention of occupying Iraqi territory or threatening Iraqi Kurds or their oil infrastructure. An attack would certainly make Iraq's Kurdish provinces less appealing for foreign investors. But Turkey has no reason to attack the assets of foreign oil companies. Iraq's central government is aware of the risks as well and is likely to exercise maximum restraint.

A limited Turkish strike into northern Iraq would probably elicit little reaction beyond public condemnation and rhetorical assertions of Iraqi sovereignty. Threats to Iraq's oil infrastructure around the northern Iraqi city of Kirkuk and other territory under the Kurdish Regional Government's control are minimal. Turkey's government knows that any move to shut down the 600-mile pipeline from Kirkuk to Turkey's Mediterranean port at Ceyhan would have little near-term impact, since most of Iraq's oil exports flow from the South, hundreds of miles from the country's border with Turkey.

Furthermore, the Turkish military can increase the pressure on Iraqi Kurds with far less drastic measures. It can close the two countries' principal border crossing, an important route for food, fuel and other goods headed for Iraqi Kurds. It could also cut exports of electricity to northern Iraq. Still, even small-scale military operations would generate risk. If the PKK is able to launch a major attack on troops or civilians inside Turkey, the public outcry might leave Erdoğan with little choice but to up the ante.

The issue is complicated further by Turkey's refusal to negotiate directly with the Kurdish Regional Government in northern Iraq. Such talks, Turkey fears, would offer tacit acknowledgement that Iraqi Kurds have won a degree of autonomy from Baghdad. That's a bridge too far for Turkey's nationalists and its military. There are risks for Iraqi Prime Minister Nouri al-Maliki as well, because Turkish military strikes on Iraq's northern provinces could undermine the Kurdish support on which his government increasingly depends.


Both Sunni Arabs and Kurds already resent Maliki's mild reaction to Iran's recent shelling of Iraqi territory -- an attempt to strike at Iranian Kurdish militants fleeing across its border with Iraq. There are also risks for the US. Most supplies headed for US troops in Iraq and Afghanistan move through the Incirlik airbase in Turkey. With the threat that the US House of Representatives will approve a resolution that accuses Turks of genocide against ethic Armenians nine decades ago, this is a particularly inopportune moment for the two countries to be at odds over Iraq.

But, worst-case scenarios aside, a Turkish invasion of northern Iraq can only serve the interests of Turkey's Kurdish separatists. That's why cooler heads are likely to prevail. Limited cross-border operations are increasingly likely. A war between Turkey and Iraqi Kurds is not.


*Ian Bremmer is president of Eurasia Group, the global political risk consultancy, and author of "The J Curve: A New Way to Understand Why Nations Rise and Fall." © Project Syndicate, 2007.


I am not into politics... never have been... Ian Bremmer may have some points at the bulls eyes.... but as a silent observer to all that is happeneing around here.... this is what i think....

Turkey's Prime Minister, Tayyip Erdoğan is no fool...He is the type of guy who is very charismatic..a cool headed guy... among the best prime ministers turkey has ever seen... I am confident, whatever he decides for the country will be for the best. No one wants war....who would want to see their family members die? But if it what must be done to protect the integrity of the country... what must be done will be done....for the sake of the country and its people.

I for one... am a supporter of Mr. Tayyip...He is no George Bush... he is a man a thousand times better.... The song that is playing now is titled *Mr. President*.. a song directly dedicated to Mr. Bush....i dont think people will write such a pleading song for Erdoğan...
Ah..the talk of war.. it is so depressing eh? Let there be peace n harmony....

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Sunday, October 28, 2007

Batik

"Batik is renowned for its universal appeal and affordability. And in Malaysia, it is synonymous with local arts and crafts.
To make batik, patterned areas are first covered with wax so that they will not recieve the colour of the dyes. Multicoloured and blended effects are obtained by repeating the dyeing process several times, with the initial pattern of wax boiled off (only with cotton fabric) and another design applied before re-dyeing.
A cracked effect, caused by fissures in the wax, can also be achieved by crumpling the wax before dyeing. Finally, after the desired colours and effect are realised, the fabric is boiled one last time to wash away the wax. Finished batik comes in many various forms-from sarongs to scarves, shirts to shorts,blouses to dresses, as well as collectible items."
When Alinlai sms - ed me asking whether i wanted some *kain* (kumaş) or not since she was doing her shopping for raya, it never crossed my mind that she meant batik...and a handmade at that! Just look at this....

isnt it gorgeous? (scanned pic of course)

I was practically jumping when i opened the package and saw that lovely pattern...i was smiling ears to ears.....there r also ties for halil n t-shirts for the kids... but hatice was eyeing my kain with envy... normally, if anything nice comes my way for me, i will directly give that thing to her...but sorry dear... this time, ur anne is not sharing *chuckles*....am still thinking what kind of fashion i will i turn the cloth into...i will probably follow alinlai's advice n turn in into skirt n on top..probably ..a blouse?am still thinking... THANKS ALİNLAİ! U made my day that day! (though i am still feeling guilty about the price... i thought she was asking whether i want kain biasa ajer... if i had known she was thinking of the handmade batik... i wouldnt have said yes)..alinlai.. halal yea?

These r several photos i took from the net...of batik clothing...Personally, i love batik Malaysia coz i think the patterns r soooo cheerful, sunny and colourful...simply gorgeous!

















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Friday, October 26, 2007

Tatlı kızıma benim...

It was a few years ago. Hatice genetically has my math capabilities. Why do u think i opted for Language as my major for the uni eh? hahahahaahahah i am a hopeless case for maths...

But yes.. i am a hardworking girl... just like my dear lil girl... Baddin fortunately, follows his dad. He is brilliant but less hardworking...

This happened a few years ago... Halil was teaching hatice to recognisenumbers (she could verbally count but was unable to recognize the shapes of the numbers)... For half an hour, Halil was teaching hatice number one n two using wooden blocks

Halil: Kızım, bu numara kaç?*showing her number one* (my daughter, what is this number?
Hatice: Bir (one)
Halil: Doğru (Correct). Bu numara kaç? *showing her number 2* (what is this number?)
Hatice: İki (two)
Halil: Doğru (Correct). Peki, bu numara kaç? *again showing to her number 2* (so now what is this number?)
Hatice: Bir (one)
Halil: Yanlış (incorrect)
Hatice: Beş? (five?) Hatice looking at her father uncertainly..
Halil: Kızııımmmmmmmmmmmm (My daughter!)

hahahahahaahhaha

HAVE A NİCE WEEKEND EVERYONE!
Pls eat those wonderful food at the open houses u will attend for me!


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Thursday, October 25, 2007

Indoor Slippers

I cant thank u all enough for ur support regarding my weight challenge... :0)



On Tuesday, halil came back home early...The kids were already back from school...He bought chocolates, hazelnuts,walnuts, drajes for the kids.... and then, he took out something quite big from a twigy plastic bag...and said...



*here..take this... may you wont be wearing my indoor slippers anymore!*



hahahahahahahaha...





my new indoor slippers (scanned)


Well... i have a few indoor slippers..but just look at halil's slippers below....



halil's indoor slippers
(scanned)


it is so big and light and soooo comfortable!! Can u blame me for wearing it? *chuckles*....


The truth is....being born n bred in Malaysia where i am used to walking barefeet... wearing socks n indoor slippers r things that i find hard getting used to in this turkish culture....


I remember how in my early days here...everyone kept saying...something like (in turkish) ..


*why arent u wearing ur socks?*

*ur feet will get cold and u will get sick!*

*if u dont wanna wear socks at least wear ur indoor slippers*


after 8 years... though socks n indoor slippers r not my cup of tea still... i do wear them esp when i enter my kitchen (coz i tend to make the floor wet most times hehe)..and the most comfortable...biggest indoor slippers available in the apt? of course, his! hahahhahaha


my new indoor slippers r the most comfortable and softest he could find in the shop... so far... his slippers r safe (for now).

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Tuesday, October 23, 2007

İ need ur support

My dearest friends...

I havent been totally honest with u. Yes... i had faced the empty nest syndrome after both my kids started school.. true, i was busy during the Ramadhan months...I was not diverting ur attention when i said that i was down most times than not...i was also not lying when i said that i was not on the pc much thus was not able to visit ur blog often...But the main reason i was not really updating my Quill of my Heart blog as often as i used to...is mainly because...i was busy focussing on my walks....



If u had been with me for a while..u may notice that i am someone with a *weight challenge*... u may also sense how i am at times were/are devoured by this inferiority complex. Being someone with the *xtra flesh* do that...it affects how one percieve oneself... in my case... my confidence. I am sure my halil or haticem or baddin love me no matter how i am physically... after all.... beauty is in the eyes of the beholder... and since i am the cleaner.. the cook, the maid in every sense in their lives.... they have no option but to love me *chuckles*...



In my life... i had gone thru several stages.... 2 main ones esp.. slim stage n fat stage... when i was still unmarried and was in the *fat* stage*..i see how people reacted towards me... i see how they tried to stay away.... and contrastively... in my *thin* unmarried stage..i see how people tried to get near...Alhamdulillah.. right now, in my married *fat* stage... i am well loved.. by those around me...but it doesnt change that fact that i have to find the *buyuk beden* (big size) clothing to suit me...i cant find stuffs easily due to my size. that affects my confidence greatly...



From the life of totaly cycling from section 2 in bangi to fakulti pendidikan, pusat bahasa, n usaneka in ukm.... i flew to turkey..to a life of pure leisure... eat...sleep n nothing else... the food? from hot n spice to cheeses and yogurt and olive oils.... that change of life pattern changed my size as well... it was only expected.... and after that..2 ceasarian births... where i actually had to look after the two kids as if i was raising twins.....i had no time of the chances to look after myself...



Now both r in school. From 7.35am till 4.35pm...monday to friday, i am free. Free to undertake something i should be doing ages ago.. i need to start losing weight. And so i found the cheapest....way to lose my weight ... no strict diet..just caution here n there in my food intake (i can never take strict diet)...



And i have been updating my *Simah n her Weight Challenges* blog for almost everyday....I was shy to tell anyone of this project.. until rad pointed out to me that this should be a challenge n not a problem..... n i hereby invite u to take a peek of my daily activity of walking... feel free to laugh... but once in a while..do throw a bit of ur kind words of motivation... coz i cant give this up...i need to set a goal.. and for now..this is my goal.....This is my focus...Wish me luck!



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Friday, October 19, 2007

Raya 2007

Raya...or Bayram in Turkey..... Well... If u were born in Malaysia.... or at least have stayed in Malaysia....for Hari Raya Aidilfitri or Ramazan Bayram... u will of course get used to eating (or at least being served (depending on the states u r in or ur family background)..........
at least 10 types of cookies on the table..
Dishes such as...nasik himpit..
Ketupat (my favourite is ketupat pulut dicicah dengan rendang yum yum)

Lemang or lomang my mak long used to say...when pak long was alive, he used to go into the forest himself n get the bamboo for making lemang for her...

Rendang... rondang nogori... omak masak sodappppp

all types of cakes..ie this special Sarawak steamed layered cake

and other traditional varieties...
Of course.... living in Turkey... with raya (bayram) food generally (am not complaining)....

Chocolate
or sweets or lokum (turkish dessert)

One type of dessert ..ie baklava..

one type of salty thing ie..börek...
will come a bit less festive...(again... am not complaining hehehe only that i am salivating everytime raya is here n i think of Malaysian food)...

But one thing is precious of course is the visiting of each other....be it in Turkey or in Malaysia..the young visist the older generation....the young visit each other... in the spirit of celebration which is prominent every eid mubarek everywhere around the world...
But of course...in Malaysia... we are so used to say... Maaf Zahir Batin... u apologize to each other as u *salam* (shake hands) with each other in Malaysia...this is the time when previous disagreements r put behind... angers..hate ...being put aside...i havent been able to shake hands with anybody Malaysians here...my maaf zahir dan batin is only penned off thru letters n phone calls...
So what did we do this bayram? Well... Meşe n family decided to *escape* the zaim family this bayram (heheheh) n so they went to Gaziantep to visit a close friend...(tabiki yanık etli nohut da bize biraktı mese ya hahahaha şaka şaka..eline sağlık meşe... guzel olmus)...and so on the first day and the second day of Bayram... trying to be a menantu mithali that i am (perasan hahaha)...i sit house at baba on those two days... serving whatever needed to be served...
Meşe came back to istanbul on the second day.. n since that second day of raya nite, there was a football match, we left the fort of serving the guests at baba to meşe hehehe... I was not so lucky though... i was attacked by a violent tummy pain that whole nite... leaving halil scared to his wit that nite... him insisting that we went to the hospital which i refused (i had that same pain when i was teaching in sarawak more than 8 years ago.. they hospitalised me.. this second time.. i didnt want to take that chance of being hospitalised again)....started antibiotics the next day.. and Alhamdulillah..i am fine now :0)
Bayram celebration is only 3 days in turkey unlike in Malaysia which can last a month... and so... on the fourth day... school resumes.... and life goes on...
My digital camera is still broken of course...i had to snap using my old non digital camera... had problem uploading the photo.. so in the end... i asked for help from my sisters in law regarding the photos.. n funda sent me some photos of the bayram..esp the family photo (of all the zaims)...(THANKS FUNDA..i owe u one)...the rest i painstakingly scanned the pictures one by one (malasnya..sebab tu lama nak masukkan entry ni).....so here we were during the eid mubarak 2007....
Ramadhan...pergimu akan kembali (tahun depan)
Syawal... iyea la..iyea la... akan ku cuba posa 6
Bulan yg selainnya... posaku akan ku cuba ganti secepat mungkin (ala pompuan la katakan heheh)
:0)
Jom kengkawanku sayang... Posaaaaaaaaa ..:0)

My daughter...
amboi..dah besar dah minah ni..dengan subang gantung dia lagi.... pandai berfesyen tau! Sekarang dia suka sangat beli subang..


My son...
umur 6 thn tapi dia suka sangat baju tu (utk budak 8 tahun).. jadi terpaksa la anne dia beli jugak...
well..at least 2 tahun tak yah beli shirt kat mamat ni hahahaha
2 siblings who love each other... though baddin always drive her crazy hehehe

My family 2007

My sister sent me that banner..
*Selamat Hari Raya Aidilfitri*

The head of this family...
This year baba spent his bayram with a terrible back pain... Still he managed to entertain his guests as best as he could...bila ramai datang kesian tengok dia tak dapat rehat.... dah la tetamu dari pagi sampai malam datang tak henti henti...

Nur Hatice, Zeynep, Keremcan
Ülya Elif,Ediz, Sabahaddin, Ekrem

Minik mustafa in suit

All the kids (almost)

The Zaim family..(minus meşe n family)

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Tuesday, October 9, 2007

Salam Mulia

Allahu Allah
Oh Allah the Almighty
Protect me and guide me
Thru ur love and mercy
Ya Allah dont deprieve me
From beholding ur beauty


I was scolded by my best-friend-ever Mona!! She called my hp (yes..it is back!) and scolded me! It was 2 minutes of non stop scolding!! ...

THE Reason? I was missing in action for so long n she couldnt contact me....my blog was not updated..i was MİA.... she wanted to relay the message that 2 of our TESL friends' fathers have left this world.... Al Fatihah to Itique and Dayah.... and intan..thanks 4 the message u left at my chatbox... i was able to convey my condolences to them thru the phone... To Itique n Dayah... i hope u will be strong in this time of ur life...



The iftars? Well... The first was on Saturday 2 weeks ago...I woke up that morning with a pain in my tummy. By the time, i could wake up that morning, it was then i discovered that our fridge was broken!!! Can u imagine my panic? we would be having 22 people for iftar (children n adults of the Zaim family) and no fridge??? It took me at least one hour to empty the fridge... and luckily... there r mahture yenge, muyessa yenge and özlem in our apt block...!! but can u imagine? people coming... loads of food to be prepared...no ice(cold) water...İ was about to cry...But somehow...i managed to get thru the day/night with success....and of course, all the leftover food was distributed to everybody... semua main tapau hehehehe...The rest of the iftars went well as well..



i may not be an important person in this world.. i am not in any humanitarian effort..nor will i be remembered for my beauty... but at least if i die now...at least someone can say... *well..i know a malaysian bride who can cook turkish food well*.....i tried to snap photos of the food i cooked using my old non digital camera.. but i guess, i have lost touch with it coz all the pictures i snapped turned out fuzzy.... sorry guys.. no luck there! i am shy too to ask to borrow özlem's camera too often cpz i borrowed her digital twice (one for iftar at school n at the time the teachers were here)..my digital camera is still at the nikkon servis...



I used to think that once both kids r at school, i will be stuck in front of the pc 24/7... from the updates of this blog.. u can see that it is not the case eh? In fact, subconsciously, i try to stay away from the pc.... not that i dont miss u all... i do......i suppose i am just in this phase of life when i need to deal with what is happening in my life....i need to adjust both my mental as well as my physical freedom...perhaps this empty nest syndrome is making me depressed with my realising it that i try to cut my contact with people? i dunno..i am simply adjusting. i am trying to fill in the lost blanks of the fragments of my life..am i making sense?

And on the 4th... on the day i should be feeling happy coz it was my birthday.... news from the homeland left me feeling betrayed... the memory of the past rehaunted me...i was reminded of one of the reasons i felt that i needed to escape Malaysia...making me feel fragile inside... as i unleashed my sadness to him... as he held me in his arms...trying to comfort my breaking heart....i just cant believe how some people just dont change......Halil is right.... after 33 years of living...i should be immuned to this...but why cant i?

And on the Lailatul Qadar night.... i wish i had my camera with me... u should have seen it...all mosques were wonderfully lighted... thousands flocked to the famous mosques ...it was a total celebration... and we.. thinking of going to the less famous mosque to avoid the crowd... we were wrong! even at 10pm... it was still totally overcrowded!! and the best part of all... i get to kiss the case containing our Prophet Muhammad's beard...it is black in color..the beard i mean.... i assume our prophet had black hair then....

Anyway...Aidil Fitri.. or Bayram in turkish is coming soon....From the bottom of our hearts....
From Halil to Nur Hatice to Sabahaddin and me....

Hayırlı Bayram Mubarek Olsun!
Selamat Menyambut Hari Raya Aidilfitri!
Maaf Zahir dan Batin



p.s... apologies of the unanswered comments..will try to answer them soon..



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